If ever there were proof of love at first sight, it would be found in Olympia Bellchambers, née Valance, and her husband, former AFL star Thomas Bellchambers.
For this Valentine’s Day, we sat down with Olympia to explore the essence of romance—their love story, the quiet moments, and the key to a healthy relationship.
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So how did it all start, tell us about how you first met.
Our story began like many modern romances—online. It happened quickly. One night, we started chatting and discovered we lived just a few streets apart. I asked if he wanted some company, and he eagerly agreed. I walked over in my trackies and Ugg boots, completely makeup-free and carrying a bottle of wine—unaware that I was about to meet my future husband. We stayed up all night, eating, talking, and drinking many more bottles of wine. From that night on, we’ve never spent a moment apart. It may sound corny, but it was truly love at first sight for both of us.
It must have been, especially since you got engaged after a year! Was there a moment when you both just knew?
I think we realised we had something special by the third week. Three weeks felt like three years; and it was as if we had known each other our whole lives. Everything just felt effortless. We shared similar life goals, got along well with each other’s friends and family, and neither of us wanted to be apart for even a day.
Then, I came home one day to find a significant portion of his wardrobe empty—that was the moment we fully began our life together.
How do you usually celebrate Valentine’s Day?
Honestly, we don’t do much for Valentine’s Day, but that’s what makes it special for us. We prefer a cozy day together, ordering in takeaway, and watching a good movie. However, FLOWERS are a must! Thomas learned very quickly that nothing brings a bigger smile to my face than a stunning bouquet of Vasette flowers.
Cozy nights are the best. Would we be right in guessing your love language is Quality Time?
My love languages are actually Acts of Service and Physical Touch. Nothing makes me more weak at the knees than when someone does something for me without being asked! Cleaning my car – UGH! Booking a date night at my favourite restaurant – YES! Putting on fresh sheets – SEE YA LATER! But I also love physical closeness; hugging, holding hands, and long kisses.
Thomas’ love languages are Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. He’s not about the flashy gestures, but he truly values time spent together—whether it’s a quiet night in or a spontaneous adventure. He loves the kind of connection that comes from sharing moments and experiences. And when you tell him he’s doing a great job or that you appreciate him? He’s all in. He’d never ask for compliments, but a genuine, heartfelt word of praise? That hits different.
When do you feel the most loved?
It’s the little things—the ways we show up for each other that speak louder than words. When Thomas handles something before I even have to ask, or when I surprise him with something small but meaningful. It’s in the way we make sure to carve out time for each other, even when life gets busy.
We don’t need to constantly be doing something extravagant, but when we’re there for each other—really there—it means everything. It’s in the small acts, the quiet moments of connection, the way we touch base, or share a laugh over something only we get. We both thrive when we feel seen and valued in those everyday, unspoken ways. And that’s when I know, without a doubt, we’re truly loved.
And finally, if you could give one piece of advice to couples everywhere, what would it be?
Never let issues fester—communication is vital for a healthy relationship. Always approach discussions with love and care, avoiding conversations in the heat of the moment. If either of us feels the urge to say something we might regret, we take a moment to calm down and reflect on our true feelings before re-engaging with respect.
Our most important rule? Never go to bed angry with each other.
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